Talking about Bestfriends and the men in my life

For nothing better to do and it seems to me that my muses have deserted me… I’ll just talk about several people who are near and dear to my heart.

The men in my life:

I find it weird that most of my ex boyfriends are my bestfriends and some of my bestfriends have become my boyfriends…

Yuck right?

Dunno why that happens…

Let me see…

JONATHAN:
Computer Engineer.

What I liked about him: Beautiful brown eyes. Petite. *lol* funny (as in haha funny, not weird funny) Agnostic.
History: started out as friends, ended up dating coz all of our friends were dating.
Reason for break up: found another girl (office mate)
Break up line he used: “Mas madalas ko syang kasama. Ikaw once a week lang kita nakikita.”
Mantra to get over him: “Ok lang… bansot naman sya eh. Wedge heels lang ang katapat nyan.”
Status in my life: friend


JOASH:
Electronics and Communication Engineer

What I liked about him: Beautiful brown eyes. Tall (5’8), very intelligent, witty and we were on the same wavelength with peeves and faves. Funny. Devoted to his family. Mature spiritual relationship with God.
History: He was friends with my brother. Got introduced. Went out.
Reason for breakup: too busy
Break up line he used: “Nakakahiya naman sa’yo. Wala akong time for our relationship. Its unfair for both of us.”
Mantra to get over him: “Just keep working. Its gonna be ok. He’s not the only guy in the world, even if he was the perfect one…”
Status in my life: Best friend

JEFF:
Financial Analyst/Real Estate Agent

What I liked about him: Beautiful brown eyes. Sexy toes. Tall (5’7 ½), Witty. Adorable parenthesis smile. Goal/career oriented.
History: Classmate from grade school up to HS. His parental units and mine were trying their utmost to pair us up. Caved in to pressure. Lasted 3 years
Reason for breakup: irreconcilable differences
Break up line he used: “Wala ka nang naico-contribute sa growth ko. I have standards you know.”
Rebuttal: “Standards pala ha… Batuhin kaya kita ng Standard Electric fan… hindot.”
Mantra to get over him: “Just keep swimming. You’re one tough beeyatch. We’ve gone through a lot of shit to get where we are… We’re gonna survive this. Love yourself more.”
Status in my life: good friend

See the pattern? Aside from beautiful brown eyes, I believe I never had a boyfriend/bestfriend that didn’t contribute to my character growth. I learned a lot from them and for that (even if some of them were jerks) I was happy. I also have a penchance for names starting with the letter J.

oOo

Howie is a different story altogether. We have been the best of friends for the past 7 years. The “affair” wasn’t really one sided, but lets just say that we’re both confused about the situation.

He has absolutely GORGEOUS cinnamon brown eyes. A great smile. A brilliant mind. A cute butt. ^_^

*sigh*

oOo

Robbie has gone back to the States… :o(

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I’m having a really bad day. My nose is all clogged up, my throat hurts from all that coughing and its that time of the month again. So I’m cranky, weepy, bloated, sore and cold. This is turning out to be a really bad day. To add to the mess… its raining outside, my mobile phone has a virus and my bessy looks like he woke up from the wrong side of bed.

I don’t feel so good.

This sucks…